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Making Impact on my Birthday

Making Impact

Being alone for my birthday stresses me out. This realization is new, because once upon a time, I used to crave precious alone time. My family is away and my best friends are at work but I promise that your girl is not whining for a babysitter.

I look for activities that don’t involve being alone (and sad) at home watching movies.

Thinking about my dad, for example, is an activity that makes me sad in the end, but I don’t want to tell myself to not think about him. But I know if I’m alone then it will come up.

I don’t want to be dependent on anything for my own happiness, but right now, I need to be constantly focused on an activity. It’s like if you’re performing classical music onstage, and the audience is distracting. You do anything to ignore the audience because it’s irrelevant to delivering your music; you play Chopin the same way whether the audience is asleep or humming along.

“Don’t worry,” a buddy says. “We’ll do something on your birthday. So you won’t be alone.”

“If you forget,” I say, “I’ll be very sad.”

But I’m pretty sure he will forget, because that’s how he is.

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